Its a muscle that needs to be flexed in order to develop and unfortunately that flexion doesn't happen without life getting really messy. My most recent life/career coach shed some light on this when he said ...
"Sabrina, you need to get uncomfortable to grow."
The details of how it is that I have become as resilient as I am is just fiction told in past tense though certainly relevant in the present as I raise my daughter. How can I walk next to her as she goes through those REALLY uncomfortable moments without rushing into take it away, or shying away out of fear? Perhaps you have asked yourself this very same question.
I have followed, loved and adored Sheryl Sandberg for years and many things she has said has resonated with me ... though this one still echoes. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.
Stay strong mama. XO